Happy New Year From Jem! I Will Intend To Manifest An Amazing Year & So Will You!

We are nearing the end of 2015 in England. To be one who says ‘New Year New Me’, does not feel so cliché, for the  method of which I speak so much of has played a pivotal role in my life now resembling the one I will have.

I got up today at 12 noon after pulling an all-nighter reading my Tamar’s new ebook – , and constructing my I will Intent To Manifest sentence, writing the revisions to my What Will It Be When story (as I have done one before) and from that I built my accompanying personal script.

Doing these exercises was an extremely fun process, and felt like I had written an autobiography of a life I have not yet lived but I WILL. I have read myself the story, as is the instruction, and tapped already today (whicha are all in the instructions for the book) and as yet, I have made notes for four other stories and tapping scripts for what I will manifest, so I will do another one tonight.

I will continue to manifest ease in my life, and to be obligation free.

I have lovingly told everyone who requested my company tonight to ring in the new year without me, as I have a project to do, and it feels right to do it now.

In previous years I felt alone, and anxious around the holidays, and would join out of obligation, and need for companionship. But this year I do not feel obligated to celebrate, and in my own way, I am celebrating. I will empowers me, and its safe, and true to what I will do, be, and have.

I send love to everyone who asked me to join them, I am not being a dick, I am just enjoying being a deliberate vibrational snob as so lovingly puts it.

Happy new year to everyone, who has already celebrated, is celebrating, and who will be, and to all I trust will have an amazing year.

What Will It Be When When I Love & Approve Of Myself?

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Growing up in England, I was never taught much about self-love, and self-respect, other than, it was big-headed, stubborn, and wrong. My cousins were scolded for not sharing, and if I forgot to say please, and thank you, I was shamed, and told I was rude. Mostly by old, old, old, people from way back in the past, who held some sort of authority over me because of age, and family rankings.

My most recent anxiety spell caused me to review these limitations about myself, and I was given a new  script, fresh from the tree. I have been tapping on it for a little over a week, and its title has inspired this blog post.

I will now gift you another blog post, and excerpt of my own I Will stories, based on the I Will Method by my friend Tammy. You can download the free PDF of the exercise I work from .

I will release those memories, and limitations. I will leave them in the past, and I will explore the notion of what it will be when I will love, and approve of myself.

When I love, and approve of myself, instead of beating myself up when I haven’t gotten this or that done, I will feel at ease with what I have done, and treat myself with compassion.

I will not mind as much that it takes me until midday to pluck up the courage to get out of bed when I have no plans. I will not feel forced by the need to comply with a time schedule that does not align with my body clock.

I will get out of bed because I will have given myself the gift of feeling happy in the now, and I will know what it feels like to throw caution to the wind, seize the day, and embrace life. I will get out out of bed, and my life will appear.

I will compare myself to none other than myself because I will be aware that happiness, and self-worth comes from within me, not outside of me.

What I did in my past will not matter, because what was, was. It will not matter that I fell, but that I got up and kept going. It will not matter where I am, who I am with, or what I will be doing. It will not matter how far I have come but that I arrived safely in the here and now.

It will not matter what other people think, or say to me, or about me because this is a reflection of how they see themselves.

I will have more things to be grateful for, and anything that I want that I don’t have, is a matter of applying the I will method.

I will not be jealous but  I will be thankful for the contrast that expands my desire for more.

I will not rush, I will make the time to be who I will be, do what I will do, and have what I will have.

I will lovingly take care of the space, I occupy, and the people I interact with, because I live, and love the now, for my benefit, and for others.

I will lovingly script my future, and I will imagine good, and only good, from now on.

What Will It Be When I Move Home & I Will

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I have been inspired by an exercise on my friend Tammy’s website () to write blog post’s that are excerpt’s of my own I Will stories. The method I am working from is called ‘Write Your I Will Story & It Will – What Will It Be When I Will Be-Do-Have What I Want?’

I love reading back over my journal’s, and my I Will’s to see how much I have manifested with the power of I Will affirmation’s. And as I state in my bio, I do love to create, and clear, and script my future. I know I was mean’t to find Tammy in the group, and discover her I will method, write my I will story, and manifest again, and again, and again. I tapped to her newest script today, and within six hours I had five manifestations of my I Will’s, and two big surprises.

So, enjoy my first I Will Story, as I enjoyed writing it:

What It Will Be When I Will Move Home & I Will.

What will happen when I will find my new home?

When I will move out of my current home, things will move quickly, easily, safely, and smoothly. I will find a property I instantly see myself living in, and it will be a top floor apartment, and I will be able to look out at the ocean view. It will be within strolling distance of the sea, and the town. There will be a good public transport service. I will live in a quiet, spacious, modern, well lit apartment block. There will be a diverse community, and the neighbours will be friendly. My new apartment will be easy for people to find, and get to, and my friends, and family will enjoy coming to visit. 

What’s inside?

Inside my home, there will be all modern conveniences to enjoy. My apartment will be open plan. My new home will be warm in winter, and cool in the summer. I will have a rooftop balcony, over looking the trees and the marina below, and  I will have a lounger, and room for a hot tub, and a barbecue. In my apartment I will have tiles, and dark wood flooring. I will have an office, and a large fitted kitchen with a modern fridge, a coffee machine, and a dishwasher, and washing, and drying facilities. I will have large floor length windows, and patio doors opening out to the balcony area. I will have central heating.  I will have good internet signal, and good lighting throughout the apartment. I will have two bedrooms, so my family, and friends can stay.


What Will Cause Me To Choose This Apartment & What Will I Do In The Mean Time?

My new apartment will be well within the amount I will like to spend on rent, and tax. All my billls, and services will easily be transferred over to my new property. I will be allowed pets. My Landlord will be courteous, and easily reached by phone, and email.  My new apartment will have lots of room, and I will continue to de-clutter my current abode, so that I will know what to pack, and bring with me when I will move in.”

This is the point of I will, to set intentions, and when you get in to the habit, it is easy to visualize the being, doing, and having, and to move towards the manifestations. Putting the words down is a personal, and affirming act. I choose to write, and share, and show. And I will.

I Will Win Today & Tomorrow For The Highest Good Of Myself & Others

Life is not about what you do, it is how you feel.

My favourite Abraham-Hicks quote is from a YouTube video entitled  and is on the  YouTube channel, where Abraham says, the only way you can get rid of doubt is by experiencing clarity, because both can not abide within you at the same time.

Last week I was in employment, and now I am not. I had seven panic attacks over three days, one so bad that I asked my parents to come, and get me because I had gotten to the point where I didn’t know which way was up, and which was down. I was very misaligned, doubting for a long while, myself, the job, and listening to intently to others stories about their hardships. I was split energy wise, between believing what I could do, and what I ‘have to do’ in order to, I don’t know, fit in, I guess.

But enough about the job.

Do you ever feel like the Universe is listening to you? Because I have two prime examples of this to tell you.

I am learning Hebrew for fun, but verrrry sloooowwwwlyyyy. I dowloaded the Memrise app, and signed up for languagepod101, and here I get a word a day to learn along with accopanying phrases. Last week, I got the word ‘lachutz’ which means Anxious. Yep. If I was looking for a sign that the Universe is not only listening, but also talking to me, I got it in the form of the accompanying sentence which was ‘Ha-isha le’khutza’ – It means ‘The woman is nervous. Come on! The Universe talks, indeed!

When I have been asked what it feels like to have anxiety before, I have not been able to answer, but now I know a better way. You know what you believe, and you know how you feel inside, and what you want to change. When you decide you will change, you find beliefs that align with your idea of what needs changing. For me, I use Echo Tapping to manage my anxiety, and it works.
But when it rears its ugly head I have to remember to put into practice what I do daily, and even moment by moment, if I want to see the benefit of it. That practice includes I Will affirmations meditation, and restorative Yoga. For when you are in the pains of anxiety in particular, the imagined result of the bad stuff you have experienced can seem all too real, and you just want to curl up in the corner, and shut out the world.
I now choose not to do that, I have used EFT and in particular I WILL method and Echo Tapping to drive the message of change into my DNA. And after all, a belief is only a thought that you keep thinking and if I believe in a life ruled by anxiety, I will be anxious, and if I believe there is light, and peace to be had, I will do what I have learned to do until I have peace of mind, and then I will do it some more. I will be deliberate in my intention to be the person I will be, and this method has manifested many results in my life.
When I feel these feelings, and I can’t see past them, I tap to these EFT Echo Tapping scripts, Changing My Beliefs, Piss Off Mind, I Will Relax No Matter What The Problem Is, and I Will Be The Master Of My Own Mind, all written by my amazing friend Tammy whose website has lots of helpful tips on how you will become the person you want to be. All these scripts, and personal request scripts can be purchased for $1 , isn’t that great?  I think so too! Ooh, and the I Will Method that I mentioned is free.
Today, I am back on form. I have felt so much clarity, and peace because I persevered with my methods, and I was my authentic self. This morning, with gratitude for all who supported me through it, I woke up happy, and smiling, and didn’t stop today. I Will win today for the highest good of myself, and others.

Revelations With The Power Of I Will Affirmations

I have amazing friends. I have been aware of this for awhile, but everyday, feel ever more appreciative for those who lift me, enlighten me, and support me, through actions, gestures, and words of love, without expecting me to be anything but myself.

I am writing to update you on my manifestation journey. EFT wizard,  has decided to gift those wishing to be more deliberate in manifesting money by changing their beliefs, with one last month of Money Magnet Mindset before the year is out. You can find out more about this .

One of my afore-mentioned amazing friends who I manifested through joining the Facebook group Brad created for MMM, let me in on her amazing secret of the  and the .

I now swear by the I Will method, and I am so happy to have found my friend, and share her work here. She has let me test out a script entitled ‘being happy has nothing to do with others’, and well, the thoughts that came up whilst tapping is the stuff blog-post dreams are made of.

Near on everyday since money magnet mindset started in march – give or take one or two days for sickness – I have tapped, and it has brought out many a revelation. And yesterday I realized why I seek approval from others.

As a child I would often hear adults around me talk to, and about each other unkindly, and in an unloving way. Even when the person was in front of them they would do this, telling them how nice they look, or congratulating them but then without fail, mentioning their faults, and everything they had done wrong in the past.

I believe this was an effort in constructive criticism, when more so it was to make that person feel better about their own faults by projection.

This is why I struggle with social anxiety when speaking to some family members or even so-called friends, and why I would have rather avoided them because I anticipated the bad, and the show of false love.

It has taken me a lot of tapping to realize when someone likes me for me, and when they say they love me,  and thank me, they mean it.

For me now, it’s not an effort to believe I am worthy of receiving money for sharing my gifts and talents because I believe with the discovery of I Will method,  that I can, and I will. Learn why to say I WILL, .

Now my focus is believing I will manifest true love, true friendship, and true support. 

I will release that which is not wanted in my life. I will invite drama-less, love-filled good abundance in all areas of my life.

I Thank my friend for teaching me this cool phrase:

 מה שהיה – היה

Pronounced; MA SHEHAYA – HAYA; It means, What was – was!

And to be even more specific, although I appreciate the true love I get in a platonic way, I mean’t true ROMANTIC love, just because I know the universe is listening in!

I do love to love, and be loved. It gives me a basis on which to model the life I envision with my future wife. My NEAR future wife. I LOVE scripting my future.

My deepest gratitude for reading me.

You can buy the script I used for $1 .


Fear Of Commitment

Even though I sometimes lack commitment to a writing routine out of fear. Tap, tap, tap… I still fear not having enough time…tap, tap, tap…

My fears sometimes boil up inside, and I go into a spiral of lack-filled thought. Its too hard to commit to writing this blog, that book, get published and be successful.

Sometimes I pay too much attention to those who have already been published. And even to those who haven’t. I know I don’t need their opinion! I will write in spite of their belief whether I can, or whether I have the integrity, or whether what I am writing is ‘just an online diary’. Ouch.

I cannot prove that it is or isn’t going to work out if I havent written it. I have had my blog success, integrity, and commitment questioned by concerned friends and family members. And the silly thing is, I KNOW that is just them trying to protect me.

All writers have those who think writing is not a real job, and will never pay the bills. Even my friends who are super fantastic prolific writers are too set on needing ‘a real job’ to fully trust their work will be published. Even a couple I know who have been published have their doubts.

And that’s what you choose to tell budding writers?

And then there are these published writers who choose to write about the difficulties of the publishing world, I KNOW that was their past. And they choose to focus on how difficult it was. This view could either make or break a good writer. And sometimes I fear that it will break me!

My accountability partners really encourage me. So what am I panicking for? What do I really want to write about and why don’t I just do it and concentrate all my energy on getting it written?

My big dream is… of a successful blog presence, that book being written, those puzzle pieces being put together, that agent being found and having the money to pay for that service, the money to travel outside England, and travel well, and in comfort; that publishing house calling, that contract, that series of books and stories being published, the feeling that I have something different to offer, and that I am not just jumping on an already successful idea or genre; not that there is anything wrong with that, it is all abundance!…

And sometimes, it’s far easier to be non-committal.

I shy away from sitting down and putting pen to paper or fingers to key board despite my fears because first I want to prove that what I write is good enough. When I get a really good idea, the need for validation fires up my ego.

Validation whore…

What if things don’t fall into place? What if I never get seen? What if I always have to work a side job? What if Oprah or Ellen never, ever call? I feel so bad and wasteful  when I haven’t committed to writing a blog post or adding to a new story.

My biggest fear is that  I’l have nothing to show for my life. Sometimes I feel like the risk is bigger than my desire to write. Then I sabotage myself. I look for a sign to move forward then sometimes still, I ignore it.  And I stay in my dream world.

I want to know, without a doubt, that I will commit, and my dreams WILL come true. Commitment to writing must become my first priority.  And, this is the only why success for good writers is so rare. Not that the publishing world is too hard to get in to, or that it costs too much to get started. I know that! So why don’t I act like it?

Most people aren’t brave enough to even try. I was! I tried. I started this blog! But it hasn’t gone as well as I had hoped. But this is because I also was to afraid to promote it beyond my comfort zone or as much as a confident, accomplished writer would take the time to promote themselves on their on-line platforms.

The accountability group that I love so much! They are my audience. SO why don’t I give them something to read? Why am I still avoiding putting out regular content?  Most people spend their lives waiting for that validation. And I have it! But I still don’t do what needs to be done.

That book WILL be written. I WILL do what it takes. I WILL have success. I Want to get to a place where I say I will be 100% committed, and post daily, and make the time to sit and add to my plot, and characters, explore the world, and story that is formed in my mind.

The agent, the publishing deal, the money, and the fan base comes second. I will get in to alignment with my vision.

So what am I giving up? My coffee dates! My day dream time! Woe is me…

I feel my writing will add value to the world, but I fear I won’t be seen or heard because I will be lost in a sea of other writers competing to be published, and this doesnt stop my flow but stops me committing to one idea consistently. The good thing is, I know I really do have time, and I really can commit, and I will. Maybe I have just a few more blocks to work on.

Sometimes doubt gets the better of me. I am so glad I have Emotional Freedom Tapping, because I know I can close the gap between doubting, and and doing.

My deepest gratitude for humouring me by reading my rant, and I hope I did a good job of adding in the positives, which is the entire point of this blog.

To find out more about EFT, do what thousands of others have done and watch  tap on his face while helping you release negativity with his revelatory block-busting phrases, or go  to my friends website and learn about the power of I Will affirmations, and Echo Tapping technique, and request a personal script for just $1. I have had so much joy with both their techniques that I even write blog posts while panicking about my ability to write blog posts. Whaaaat?! I know right?

Please feel free to connect, and ask me about writing or even blocks to doing so.

The Racists On The Bus Go Round & Round: Or, How I How I Hold On To My Cool With EFT

Today I talk about my daily routine of EFT and Meditation, and how I feel about it, how these things relate to being a money magnet, thanking a couple of mentors who have helped me along the way, and keep a positive feel. This post does contain brief references made by bigots on my bus journey home today, and how I kept my cool.

I feel peace when I awake up in the the mornings now. Last night I was reading ‘I can see clearly now’ by the late, great Dr. Wayne Dyer. Every line I read resonated with me in some way, I found answers, and I found myself reflecting on my own childhood, and having that deep sense of knowing about what my future would be like, only breaking from that image when becoming too easily swayed by ‘Group-think’. Near on every morning for the past couple of weeks I awoke with a feeling of gratitude and appreciation, because of my commitment to Tapping and Meditation.

I tapped all day today. I am still taking breaks in the writing of this blog to do EFT. I had the perfect, relaxing morning. I tapped to my tapping script, ‘Something Amazingly Awesome Will Happen To Me Today’ written by the creator of  a site where you can find tapping scripts and information on a new EFT technique called Echo Tapping.

Monday the 7th was the start of another month of Money Magnet Mindset for myself, and members of the Facebook group created by YouTube sensation, Brad Yates of  and . I was eager to pick up where I left off, though I have been tapping near on every day after the last class finished in May. The miracles just keep on coming. Miracles like discovering, and being in the most supportive group on Facebook.

We have new people, and we are all finding more and more things to tap on, and clear, and post our results daily, of accountability and gratitude.

I have experienced the joy of discovering like minded souls to talk with about my tapping journey. All with the safety of being supported in a judgement-free-zone. I don’t know anyone personally who taps, or believes in the meta-physical, or loves, and absorbs Abraham-Hicks teachings in my non-cyber-space social circle, and this group has been a true blessing.

A couple of weeks ago I was ill with a chest infection which had me coughing for about four weeks. I slept through a lot of it, and now my waking routine has been affected.

Arguably, I have never been one of those people you can set your watch to. But having the chest infection reminded me of long British winters, depression,  and seasonal affective disorder.

So I looked up articles on-line to help me re-establish a sleep-wake-get-up routine. After noticing that I had tried a lot of them before I found a suggestion on wiki.how to get excited about having a morning wake up time, and to jump out of bed smiling. I also remembered seeing an instructional video on Facebook, to make your own LED light-board.

I came up with the inspirational phrase ‘Jump! (Out Of Bed) & Your Life Will Appear’, because I have been reading the similarly titled book by Nancy Levin, and it’s writing exercises are amazingly freeing. I was fully invested, I felt inspired, so I found a canvas for 99p in my local shop, and bought some LED lights from eBay.

I thought about doing a every morning as well, as I once read in a  that if you only have time to do one yoga pose, do a headstand as it fights off lethargy, feelings of depression, and kick-start’s all those happy hormones. I usually feel energized and euphoric after doing so, and was eager to incorporate this practice known Shirshasana, the King of Yoga poses.

This afternoon I went out to buy glow-the-dark paint because the lettering on the light-board was not showing up as well as I’d hoped. The bus journey was smooth, and I enjoyed wandering around awhile in the shop, with a calm sense of purpose. I asked two people in different sections if they stocked what I needed. I was met with bafflement and an answer of no, they used to stock it, and a suggestion to look in another shop. I didn’t find glow in the dark paint but I found some iridescent white acrylic that I thought might stand out a little better against the brightness of the lights. (I just took a break, and tried, and it looks beautiful!)

I also felt abundant enough to by an early birthday gift for my friend, as I have balanced my account in recent months, and maintained this by becoming aware of my spending, saving, and values with help of Brad’s program.

I then got on the bus home, and by the time it rolled in to my home town, about four of five people had boarded got on the bus and I could hear them over my music. And then, my iPod ran out of power…


I wasn’t listening to them, at first: I was tapping on my collar bone with my earphones still in, as if I was tapping along to a song, but no one paid any mind to what I was doing.

An old man was talking loudly,  jovially about the old times, and how the landscape has changed since his childhood. Then he mentioned about a Mosque being built where once a Squillion years ago a primary school had stood. And I thought ,’Oh, here we go’, and I felt a tightness that went from my stomach region to my chest. It was amazing, they all joined in, echoing what is currently being talked about on the news.

I don’t enjoy, so therefore I don’t watch the news, as I get too emotional; the only time I am made aware of the news is on my Facebook and Twitter feed.

‘This isn’t England any more’, One man asserted. Which made zero sense to me, but  he went on to tell his listeners about his son wearing a shirt with the Union Jack on it, and him being told to take it off; that his ‘poor son’ is one of only four children in his class who is English. Now this I know is a very controversial subject, but I highly doubt any single person, white or otherwise living in England is truly English any more. Were we not invaded by the Romans, and the Vikings? I hope his son is more open to change than he is.

Anyhow, they carried on spouting this and that prejudice, and I carried on tapping. I was so shocked though, when the woman next to me said she felt so alienated that she wished she could go ‘some place somewhere where everyone is purely English.’ I was actually embarrassed for, and by her.

But then I stopped listening, because really, I have heard this all before, and that entire conversation, and belief is just their perception, I didn’t want to give it any more of my attention.

I relaxed, (still tapping at this point) and a smile crept across my face as in my head, I started singing… ‘The Racists on the bus, go round, and round…’ (Like the song, The Wheels On The Bus) And I dropped the issue. I remembered that just because something is made true for one person, or a group of people, does not make it true for me. I remembered being in a primary school having the joy of close childhood friendship with children of many different backgrounds. I don’t feel threatened at all by multi-culturalism and I love diversity, where I grew up, where I still live today, and my life’s journey. And that’s what I choose to focus on, what I love about life.

I can let go of that wound-up-tight feeling in my stomach and chest, when I associate racism with all other bigotry, such as homophobia, and sexism, ableism, and those who contribute to the stigma attached to mental health. I believe its all resistance to our greatest good.

I may not like it but I know that paying attention to these things makes me stressed, and judgemental myself, which is the entire point of me stopping watching the news. I know that if I pay attention to stuff I don’t like, I become a mirror image of those who make a lifestyle of judgement and playing the victim.

Paying attention to ‘what is’ – is a perception, and a self-imposed condition that can be changed. I know this because I have experienced and implemented the power of Emotional Freedom Technique, and Meditation. I have made a commitment to it and seen awesome results. Sometimes I use a combination of the two. And has anyone ever tried Super Brain Yoga? Wow!

I am grateful to characters I would have found too challenging to tolerate, and though I get annoyed by them a couple of times a day, at least I am not dwelling on it, and that feels good. I know I attracted the experience, and that these people played a part in my expansion.

Thank you Brad, and Thank you Tammy for your classes, scripts, help, and support in helping people to help others. After paying for, and acquiring the recordings for  this months, and previous Money Magnet Mindset tele-classes, I maintain that I am a different person. I feel better about money, (though I still haven’t started my job, thanks to a delayed DBS check… something better on the way?)

I am writing more, and generally being more creative. My upkeep of my 365 Happy Days challenge has seen my Instagram (Follow me @vibe_feeler) account gain in followers, and my feed is looking more, and more like a budding art account, which I have always wanted it to be, and I know I can quite literally tap in to confidence, and inspiration. And I am learning to be happier for the highest good of myself and others.

My deepest gratitude, and appreciation to all I meet on my journey.


Focus On The Good Stuff & Nothing Else Ever!

I had a major wobble this afternoon over the whereabouts of a Broadband router I have been waiting to receive. But I am challenging myself to never talk about it again, ever! Not even here, and I am going to go general about why I do not need to feed the Bad-Vibe-Bear. And perhaps midway in my typing, as I often do, I will have started talking positively again.

  1. I prefer alignment.
  2. Thinking and talking about lack makes lack a ‘thing.’
  3. Thinking and talking about what I don’t want makes what I don’t want a ‘thing.’
  4. Feeding my negativity misses the entire point of this blog, this a positivity blog where I state again and again that my intention to find a better point of attraction from which to create.
  5. Because I create my own reality.
  6. Because I have found if I carry on writing in a negative vein, I never finish the blog, and it doesn’t get posted until I review it and give it a positive spin. (Seriously I cannot now complete a woe-is-me post, negativity has become boring to me, and from here I can ball it up and throw it away easier.)
  7. This event I created (and I take full responsibility) is only contrast (variety of which to choose; as in knowing what I do, and don’t want) and I get to choose where I go from here.
  8. I can’t get what I want from a place of frustration.
  9. I made the call centre guy nervous, and I much prefer being a happy customer with calmness and structured questioning.
  10. It’s not the companies fault that I wasn’t in when they came.
  11. It’s not my fault that they didn’t leave a note.
  12. Maybe they ran out of drop notes.
  13. I like knowing that in most reputable companies, it is a top priority of theirs to provide good customer service so that they will get good feedback, and happy paying customers.
  14. I like knowing I am within my right to let the company know how I feel.
  15. I like good customer service.
  16. I appreciate that call centre workers only have a certain amount of power.
  17. I know I probably wasn’t the only angry customer the call centre dealt with today, and that frustration is normal.
  18. I know today’s blame-rampage was encouraged but not consciously offered by the people I met with today who were on their own blame rampage.
  19. I like that even though I took part, I know better about alignment, and I am developing a better ‘off-switch’ to negative energy.
  20. I like knowing that everyone I meet is on their right path towards their goals.
  21. I like realising that I couldn’t have switched off their bad mood if I tried, and I wouldn’t want to interfere with their reality anyway; I clearly have enough going on in my own.
  22. I like this collective consciousness that I can connect to at will.
  23. I like planning, and being clear about what I want before I request it.
  24. I like the feeling of ease around finding realignment.
  25. I like the idea that I can forgive myself for being out of alignment for a whole hour. (I mean come on, not too long ago I was making a life-style out of… and I nearly went there again, so I’ll save myself an hour of old non-serving self-blame and move on.)
  26. I like that while I was listening to the rants of others that I was aware of my point of attraction, and that this means when I did participate with them and wander off my path, that this was just an old thought pattern and it can be released.
  27. I like the path I am on.
  28. I like the person I am becoming.
  29. I like that no matter how many wobbles I have, from this point on, I know too much to go back on what I have learned.
  30. I like that I can change my thoughts and feelings at will, however long it takes, by being conscious of the place I want to be from wherever I am.
  31. I am a very powerful creator and I am guided and supported.
  32. Everything is always working out for me, things like the safe arrival of my broadband router.
  33. My life experience is my greatest teacher.
  34. I am safe.
  35. All is well.

These processes are practised as suggested by .

Thank you again for reading.

Letting Go: It Didn’t Happen, And That Is Ok


This post is inspired by my on the spot tapping script I started when an old pattern of jealousy, and feeling out of control rose within me. I like to script before meditation too.

The times I most often feel bad about things are when I bump up against conditional patterns of thinking. When this happens, I consciously choose to realign with my greater good. I am practising allowing more fully who I am. I cannot stop my path from unfolding. This realisation is powerful.

Here is the dialogue I used to talk myself down off the ceiling:

“It didn’t happen, and that’s okay. I allow myself to move on. I allow myself to anticipate the next good thing, and  there are better things to come than I can currently imagine. As I continue to come into alignment with the idea that my attention on the lack of it holds me from it, and my attention to it brings it forth, I know that it exists and I am making my way to it. I am softening my feelings around the urgency that rises around it.

It is happening vibrationally when I focus on the feeling of it happening rather than the need for it to happen, or how it will happen. I choose to review my dialogue when I am not getting the results I want. I choose to imagine it already having happened without attaching to the need and the how. I choose to see myself aligning with  the reality of its manifestation.

Even though it didn’t happen, I am still alive, I am still me, I am still fed, clothed, housed, loved, and supported. Nothing bad has happened because of it not coming to fruition. I am still aligning with it. I am finding the happy feelings.

It didn’t happen, and that’s okay because it exists and I can make my way to it.

The day will nevertheless come.

Things are always working out for me.”

What realisations and adventures are happening for you with EFT, and meditation?

Possibly The Millionteenth Blog Post With Love Wins In The Title

I know I am a Brit, born and raised, and I don’t live in the USA – yet – but I would like to show my deepest gratitude to SCOTUS for granting legal, equal, marital rights to all that have been asking for them for longer than they care to remember.

Last year in March, when Equal Marriage became law in the UK, I was celebrating as an out and proud LGBTQ Brit, knowing I had the loving support, wholly, and completely from my friends, and family.

A lot of people don’t enjoy that privilege.

I believe when your government votes to support your rights; whatever their political stance in relation to yours is; it truly has a positive effect on the entire population.

I believe that absolutely everything happening on earth is contributing to your highest good at all times. There is a lesson in everything.

My deepest gratitude to my teachers whether I have learned the lesson or not.

Peace. Love Wins.